Is it okay to date a girl's good friend if you dated her first?

Last year I went on two dates with girl #1 (in the second semester). Then the summer came and we lost contact. I didn't see girl #1 much this first semester, but now I have her in one of my classes. In the meantime, I met girl #2 and planned a date with her. 20 min.s before the date, I called her and she said she was at work unexpectedly. I don't know why she hadn't told me sooner. This was supposed to be a double date, so my friend was depending on me. I tried calling girl #1, but she wasn't home. The next day at school, girl #1 asked what I had called about and I told her. She wants to go on a date with me now, and I want to date her too! My problem, though is that it turns out both girls are really good friends. Would you just forget about girl #2 and date #1 like I'm thinking of doing, especially since I've already dated #1 before?

Is it okay to date a girl's good friend if you dated her first?
Dude, it's simple just have fun, if your open and honest you might find they like it!!! Surprise yourself and both may go for you cause they think they can win you or who knows they may be in to a three-some! Best of luck, don't get too serious again just have fun....when its not fun any more its time to move on....





Guy





Oh yea don't spend money on any girl ever, at least no more than over $40.00 or less on a date ever and if you can get them to pay half or all even better, don't spend your money on a girl or woman ever ever ever.... listen to 97.1freeFM.com Tom Leykes!!!
Reply:I would. I mean who cares? Do it.
Reply:i can't tell from the situation if girl #2 is just really into you and got stuck working or if she is kind of a flake who likes to make excuses. Bottom line, when you date two girls (not simultaneously) who know eachother you are usually asking for trouble. Not to belittle my own gender or anything but women are very competitive. You take the risk that either one may just date you in order to keep you away from the other. Then it's no longer relative to you whatsoever, and you end up getting used. There is really no harm in it since you are girl #2 never really dated. If girl #1 is really into you and you like her, then go for it. Just trust your gut and if anything seems fishy about it, get out.
Reply:yeah #2 don't like you
Reply:just do it...
Reply:OOhh...if you date either, and they're good friends, the other is bound to find out, so before you do anything (I doubt they'll want to allow you to date them both) you might wanna decide which one you like more, and then just be honest with them both...





Ain't coincidence a *****?
Reply:An old expression , " All's fair in love and war ! "





If you'll have no guilt feelings about breaking up two best friends , then , .... GO FOR IT !





Personally , I couldn't do it .... knowing I'd be breaking up her friendship .
Reply:Sounds like you like #1 more bc you dont want to "spend the [prom] money on #2. So.. just go with #1 and a few dates don't mean anything. It's cool.
Reply:No i think you should leave them both - it's not fair on the person you dont diside to date!