Should I Date Him?

I just broke up with my boyfriend after dating him for over a year. It was nothing he did, I just wasn't happy anymore. Well he didn't take it too well and i think he thinks that i broke up with him because of this new guy i like. Don't get me wrong, i really like this new guy and i even love him but he's not the reason i broke up with my boyfriend. Anyways, this new guy is the sweetest guy ever and he's constantly complimenting me and we've even said I Love You to eachother and we both mean it 100%. I really want to date him but i think it would be better for everyone else if we waited a while before we did. We've talked about it and he understands and is willing to wait but i really really want to date him! And he really wants to date me. We wanna date, but i don't wanna piss off my ex because i want to be friends with him so any ideas?

Should I Date Him?
YES#
Reply:Why not date?





Just go, you are not answerable to anyone else... especially he is only your EX now.
Reply:i'm in that same position. my boyfriend broke up with me last monday. but secretly liked this one guy jordan. he's super sweet and says i love you all the time. we just connect but i didn't want to take things too fast. then on friday of that same week he asked me out! so i said yes and so far my ex is still my friend he isn't pissed or anything so that's good!
Reply:Date him. You've got one life, and if you like him, you've just got to take the plunge and date him, even if it might hurt your ex. Your ex is in the past for a reason, so just explain to him he isnt the reason you split and why you did break it off with him.
Reply:Dear very confused, When you said "it would be better for everyone else", it sounds like you mean your ex. If this sweet guy is so special you should date him. Very rarely do ex partners make good friends. You should accept that breaking up means moving on. You didn't end a marriage. I am sure your ex is already getting over it, as you should be too.
Reply:Ok how do you love this new guy already? He compliments you and so you love him? Were you seeing him before you broke up with your ex? I wonder about you; this doesn't make sense...