Dont date your own race?

I respect culture, i respect it when an elder japanese woman want her grandaughter to marry nice japanese boy, and any way you swing it. What I don't get is why do some people not date men or women in their own race. I have heard how some white chicks only date black guys, how some asian men only date white girls, or black girls that only date white guys and none will date a person in their own race., why would this be, to me its retarded, a person is a person is a person

Dont date your own race?
I believe it's a matter of taste.. Some people find that members of the opposite sex from some other race are more attractive than their own race. I don't think it's because just the race per se, but about the kind of looks they're attracted to. I know of some white guy who mostly dates Sout-East Asian women since he's into darker-skinned women with wider noses, etc. I've also known of some Hispanic man who mostly dated white girls since he was into light-skinned %26amp; blonde-haired girls: he ended up marrying a Hispanic girl who is light-skinned %26amp; blue-eyed with fake (dyed) blonde hair!





So, yeah, I don't think this type of people intentionally select what race they'd like to date, but due to feature/physical generalization that's linked to a certain race, which they happen to be attracted to, make them seem like they're selective due to the race of the people they prefer to date. I don't think this is completely unnatural either, as most people tend to like/be attracted to things that are rare around where they live. For example: in most tropical countries like Asia where they get plenty of sunlight, lighter-skinned people are considered more beautiful than the dark-skinned locals. In colder parts of United States like the Midwest, people like to get tanned %26amp; dark...
Reply:People who refuse to date someone who share the same skin tone, have some sort of physiological problems. There is this girl (white) who will only date non-white guys because her dad physically abused her when she was little...





Also I have a black friend who will only date non-black guys because her dad walked out on the family when she was young.
Reply:Well it all depends maybe they are not attractive to their own kind... Maybe they find their own to be very much alike... Maybe they just don't want too... Maybe they have had bad experiences in the past and judge them to be all alike... Maybe they haven't found the right one... Or just maybe they are just not saying oh I'm going to only date those who are of the same race as me.... What ever their personal reason is then well we must respect everyone personal decision... We don't choose who to love or do we!





Anyways I treat everyone the same and give everyone the benefit of the doubt... I accept everyone for who they are :)
Reply:I agree!
Reply:Yes, a person is a person. But we are all wired differently and that often manifests itself in our preferences. It's no one's business WHO we are attracted to.





Just because a person is attracted to certain qualities doesn't make it racist. We are entitled to preferences.





Some people like white cars, some like blue.... it's the same thing. Don't read TOO much into it!
Reply:well i personally prefer white ppl idk why but thats how i feel but i want to be with my own race (which is mexican) because i feel that i want to stay with my own people. so thats why i like half white half mexican people. people can like who ever they want like i will go out with any race except black people...its not that im racist or anything but i just dont see myself with that certain race. thats just how i see it.
Reply:maybe its just they havent found the right guy in their own race i can relate to this most white guys are only after one type of girl the skinny skinny flat *** and chested kinda girl and black guys like to have a thick big *** and chest girl mexicans like the same and white guys are more rednecked thn the others so maybe they just need to find the right person in that particular race and havent found them so they just stoped looking in that area