Double date turned to single date..?

15/ f. okay this guy i like asked me out. we made it a double date with his friend and my friend. we went on two dates and it was fun. now my friend and his friend want to go out by themselves. is it weird that that irritates me? its just going on a single date seems kinda weird for just a third date. im only 15.... idk what to do. the guy is kinda shy that i like so it might be kinda awkward. what should i do?

Double date turned to single date..?
lol, I'm 15 too .. and yeah i went through tht exacttt same thing too.. the guy i was dating was pretty shy too.. and my best friend was goin out with my bf's best friend and they wanted to go on a date alone and i got so mad at her haha, especially right at the begginning like the 2nd or 3rd time we all went on a double date lmao, i was like wtf .. but that obviously means they wanna do a lil somethin mby and want some privacy .. try to get your shy boyfriend out of his shell so you guys can get to know one another and have some alone time too, if he doesn't stop being shy then hes not worth having, what kind of relationship would that bee.. haha
Reply:You shouldn't stress too much over this. You won't be double dating forever. This is just the next eventual step. Let them go out on their single date and just plan another double date that will blow all your previous dates out the water, as far as fun and creativty. Laser tag, an amusement park, dates don't have to be just at night. They are about spending time with the other person.
Reply:Sometime people want to spend time with other people without an audience of friends or acquaintances. This allows them to feel more comfortable discussing things which are more personal and it allows them to spend more time talking to each other instead of to a larger group.





We can not address whether it is weird that it irritates you that they want to do this because you did not say why it irritates you. If you do not tell us why it irritates you we can only answer your question based upon an uninformed guess as to why you feel irritated.





So what can you do? If you do not know why you feel irritated you need to figure that out. But with regard to their choice; your best bet is to respect that they are making choices which feel like the right choices for them. Remember that they are (probably) not unwilling to double date again at some point in the future; they are just trying something different now. At age 15 we spend a lot of time trying new (to us) and different (from what we have already done) things to see how we like them: this is a normal part of evolving in to a more independent person.

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