Friday, November 13, 2009

DATE TOMMARROW, Need Help!?

OK, so this girl (15 like me) who is my really good friend finally broke up with her boyfriend. After, she went on one date with a junior, said she liked it, but never followed up. I called her yesterday and asked if she was doing anthing saturday and she said no, so i asked if she wanted to see a movie or something with me. She said yes, she was free, but i'm not sure if she figured it as a date. Theres no real way to ask her if she knows i meant for itto be a date, but i plan to go anyway. I'm an awkward person sometimes and I can't think of things to say, although i am comfortable with her. Do you have any suggestions on how to make the date less awkward or even where to go (if movies, any ideas)? Also, rides? I' cant drive yet. Should we meet wherever or should i pick her up with my mom or brother or someone? And, should i sit in the front seat or back with her? Sorry, im just not used to going on a date...Thanks

DATE TOMMARROW, Need Help!?
Go with what ya feels right mate but definantly don't stoop yourself down to some of the people answering this questions level....have a good time mate. Your young enough to date and not old enough to have a SERIOUS enough relationship....dont waste your childhood have fun and enjoy your movie :)
Reply:Well you sound nervous already but its ok it happens to all of us.. well the movies is an alright place.. and you should take her out to eat aftrewords or something i recomend you get a ride with your brother cus with a parent it might get more awkward and if you really like this girl let her know because maybe she feels the same way for you to you guys were just to shy to say anything but you really should tell her cus then you will regret it when something could have been... good luck and it will make you date more intresting: ) you should even lay her a kiss a the end of your date...
Reply:either one.


it would be sort of awkward [if it was me] if my dates mother took us.


%26amp;%26amp;just relax and be yourself and if she likes you for you then you will have no problems :)


and to make it clear you meant it as a date, make sure u buy her ticket n stuff[if yall end up at the movies]


that will be pretty obvious.


good luck!
Reply:You're so like my brother.kay, first of all, if she thinks it's not a date , don't tell her that it is. She has to get used to you and her dating and see if she likes it.


2.Don't pick her up with your parents.Too embarassing. If you have to ,pick her up with your bro.And always sit next to her.


3.You guys are friends.A movie date should'nt be weird unless you go to a chick flick. Trust me. It won't be awkward .


3. If there is a chance that it is,then be sure to keep a friendly attitude with her.Good luck
Reply:well get a ride or met dont matter but if u get a ride sit in back and just do what udo when u hang out with friends realx
Reply:Hey my man hows it goin....im doing fine





ok lets get to it...ok the first thing I picked up here is that ur worried WAY to much man...and who says it has to be called a date? that will only add pressure to u and her..just go out and have fun. Now about getting a ride or meeting...that doesn't really matter but if u get her picked up don't sit in the back seat u'll both feel akward..unless ur know each other good...and another thing u would have prob never heard of this is how it goes...lets say u don't know what movie ur watching and u ask her what she wants to watch the she says i don't know how about u....don't say I DUNO like a wussy and pick something..women want to date MEN and by chossing u show taht u know what u want and u don't need to be held by the hand...and u said u didnt know what to talk about? well c this on is so simple its actually sounds to easy to be true...teh reason y u don't know waht to say is b/c ur standerds of what u would tell her are high...but what u should talk about is ANYTHING...honestly ANYTHING...like a show u watched something u seen or heard or anything....usually she'll talk back and u can get things from what she said to talk about...and if u want to hold her hand or kisss her or what ever don't hesitate to do it..like i said be a man and do it...don't force it but don;t be a wuss...and be a gentelman in the sence of getting the door for her and things liek that but u don't have to talk like a wuss...and just have fun with it..i know ur goin to get nervious but u'll soon realise that ur nervious fro nothing and she just wants to get to know u just like u want to get to know her...and don't tell her u like her lik her until she says it...alotof guys fall into lust easyly and tell the girls their feelings thinking its the best thing to do but if a girl thinks u feel for her to easyly then she might get creeped out and ull never go on a date with her again...well i know i rambled on alot but i hope i helped and take my stuff to heart man ....best of luck lil man and just be cool and chill


PEACE
Reply:well deffinately ride with her in the back or it is rude... and umm i think that unless you are really comfortable about being around your mom/ brother witha a date... meet her there. and also to think of conversation ideas talk abot what you have in common with her and NOT what you dont.


lots of luck!
Reply:When I started dating i was able to drive, however don't sweat it. The only reason you feel that you won't know what to say is because you like this girl.





Having mom pick her up or drop you off is akward in its self, but alot of kids your age now days do that. I see it when i go to the movies with my girlfriend. We are much older however alot of people have their parents drop them off.





If I were you I would ride in the back with her, but before you start to celebrate your date wait till a few hours before to call her to make sure the date is still on. Its happened to me growing up I was shy and the day of the date she cancelled for whatever reason and it sucked.





When the conversation starts going, just go with th flow, don't talk to much about yourself nor any guy things. Find out what she likes to talk about and hope that its something that you can relate to. Avoid the video game talk I would think she wouldn't enjoy that.








BEST OF LUCK.
Reply:What the 1st guy said
Reply:Dude just go with no expectations and have fun. If she's into you then you will know. Remember she just broke up with somebody and may not want to date somebody else right now. You dont want to be the rebound guy because that will be more awkward than you asking her out now because she may only want to be friends and you want more.


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