First date kiss?

Well, heres the deal. I'm 20 years old, my friend set me up with his pretty hot fillipino friend and I'm going on a date with her a week from friday. I go to college about 3 hours away from where she goes, and she's seen my pictures and told my friend she's interested. So, after the date I'm spending the rest of my spring break snowboarding in Canada, and might not see her for awhile cause i'm heading back to school after the trip. I'm thinking about, if things go well of course, sealing the deal with a kiss. Is OK to kiss on the first date? I've been on dates before but have never pushed the kiss the first date, but I think the only way to keep her interested is if I move in on the first date. I can't believe i'm 20 years old and asking this question but I mean, if she looks interested, should i do it? I don't want to seem to forward or make her think i'm just there to hook up.

First date kiss?
I think you should squeeze her hand (if possible) and kiss her on the cheek. That shows interest.





But I think that you will just get a 'vibe' from her about wha tyou should do.. just see how the date goes. I think that sealing it with a kiss on the cheek is good and then hopefully you'd be able to meet up again in the future and get to know each other more. But if you really want to do it, then go for it. You sound like a pretty respectful person.- Maybe do it at the END so that she KNOWS that you weren't doing it just to 'hook up'.





My advice would still be cheek though! :p Do it slowly so that if she wants to move in for your lips, she can.
Reply:Go for as much as she'll let you have. Some girls actually screw on the first date, and I didn't thing they were sluts for doing so. What happens between two consenting adults is nobody else's business.
Reply:Lol i say if the moment is there then go for it!!!! lol but i would make it just a lil kiss goodnight nothin over the top.
Reply:you're basing tyour questions from "what ifs"... i appreciate the sense of foresight though...men are not having much of that these days.





well, here's what i think, Filipinoes are ineherently conservative... so before thinking of making that move, when you get to meet her, try to assess the level of her conservatism...





just get the feel of how the date goes..sometimes you can just tell if its worth ending it with a kiss...





good luck...
Reply:hmmm.. well ya u shud! a nice one ...!!!:)
Reply:i wouldnt worry about it. there are people that sleep together of the first date. if things seem like they're going well go for it.
Reply:Yeah, it is really ok, unless you gonna put an extra effort on it... But a friendly kiss will do...