I have a wedding date.. & I am nervous?

My friend, who I have known since elementary school is getting married in early July. About two and a half weeks ago, her brother.. my two other friends and I were visiting each other at the bar, having a drink.. and her brother just came out and asked, “do you want to be my wedding date?”, and even though I was shocked - I said “yes”. Here’s the thing: I am so damn nervous. I have been IN a wedding before, however I have not played a role as a “wedding date”, let alone a DATE itself (so maybe this will be my first ‘date’ at the tender age of 22?). In addition, since he has asked me.. he has talked to my other friends – telling them that he is really excited for me to be his date.. also, he has invited me to go golfing with him, he texts me on %26amp; off during the day, and before he goes to bed.. and in the future, offered to take me out to dinner. One of my friends asked if he would date me, and apparently he said, “yes, I would date her – she is a wonderful girl”. To make this short, I am REALLY nervous on account I have no idea what to do as a “date”.





Has anyone been a wedding date and if so, how did it go? If you have tips or comments, feel free to let me know.





Thank you very much.

I have a wedding date.. %26amp; I am nervous?
it looks to me like all u really have to do is go and have fun... i dont think that there r guidelines to being "dates" at a wedding... if he is in the wedding party... then he will be standing up at the alter and u will be in the seats... after the wedding u will wait for him to get done greeting all the guests.... at the dinner or reception afterwards.... he will probably have to sit at the table with the rest of the bridal party... and u might sit with him... if not u will sit at a table... so basically all u have to do is be there for him when his responsibilities r done..... go look beautiful... have fun.... that is all u can do to be the best "date" u can be... ♥
Reply:I was my bf's date to his cousin's wedding. It was a little weird b/c his cousin was the same age as him and getting married, but other than that, it was fun. They had a big bbq for a wedding reception in their backyard, and etc.


It's odd when it's someone you know that's getting married, but when it's someone you've never met it's worse.


Don't be nervous, it probably took him a long to get up the courage to ask you to go with him. Act like a regular wedding guest, just dance with him all night instead of multiple people
Reply:Go and enjoy yourself! But since you are so nervous, take him up on the dinner before the wedding. This will allow you to get some of the nervous energy out, and feel more comfortable with him.


Best of luck!
Reply:The most important thing is that you just act like yourself. Dress nicely, but make sure that you are comfortable so that you feel comfortable. He likes you for who you are so don't ever change that.





The first wedding that I went to with a date was with my best-friend, I guy that I loved for years and it was the most wonderful time of my life. I got a dress that was pretty yet simple and I was comfortable in it and when we sat down at the church he turn to me and told me that I looked beautiful.





I was nervous as well, but I was just me and that was enough, so you should do the same and you will have a great time. Don't think of it as of a date, but more of just a night for you to have a great time with someone that you like and that likes you. I think the word date makes everyone a little nervous.





Have a great time!!!
Reply:I think you just go along and have a great time. Sounds like he is keen on you, so just go with the flow.





Frock yourself up, look stunning and knock his socks off if you are interested in him too.





Havea great time
Reply:You act exactly the same as if you'd gone to her wedding alone, except that you sit with him and perhaps dance a few dances with him. Nothing to be nervous about! I hope you have fun!
Reply:You were invited for who you are. Don't play a role, just get dressed up and go there. Remeber you are there to witness your friend's wedding and that guy too, so if you are shy, focuson letting go f tensions and talk about the weeding, food, tell him his looks nice with his chic outfitt and have a nice time!