He wants to date other women and continue dating me as well, is he really interested in me?

I dated a guy twice in two weeks. when he called me for our third date, I reminded him that I was not comfortable dating a man who was dating other women at the same time, he didn't say anything at all at that time but later on the same day of our third date he cancelled it.








One week after, he called me to say that "he wanted to date other girls too and also continue dating me because he liked me".





I was reluctant to accept at first but then I did. Now he tells me he can't go out with me for two weeks, and that would make a month without seeing each other at all, and he isn't calling me either. I don't know what to do. please help!

He wants to date other women and continue dating me as well, is he really interested in me?
he's looking for the best deal.


sex, food, %26amp; benefits!


what's wrong with that?
Reply:Sounds to me a jerk. All he is a player


I would find someone who wants you and you only. I wouldn't waste my time. Have respect for yourself.
Reply:He wants his cake and eat it too! You need to let go of him, he's using you.
Reply:It kind of sounds like he's already in a serious relationship and is just looking for a booty call when his woman doesn't want to give it up.. Get rid of him and find some one who wants to be with you all the time
Reply:After two dates in two weeks, it's pretty fast to require an exclusive relationship. Maybe if you guys REALLY hit it off, but otherwise, no. So I don't think you're being realistic.





Actually, I prefer to concentrate on one woman at a time -- I don't really like dating multiple people at the same time -- but most guys are NOT like that. (Heck, I'm lucky when I can find one girl that's willing to date me, LOL)





(Edit) What's up with all the hostile (to the guy) answers above (wow, and below) me??? Let's switch this around -- if a guy (or girl, as the case may be) asked you for an *exclusive* relationship after *two dates* wouldn't you run like hell??? (or at least think it was kind of unusual?)





(Edit) Well, I think he just lost interest, too. I don't know how this gave you your "dignity" back. You met a guy, you came across as a needy and insecure person, and you missed a chance to get to know him better, which would have been necessary for either of you to decide whether you wanted an exclusive relationship. Well, good luck, really!, I know it's hard to meet a good person, but if you don't act a little more reasonably next time, you are going to keep getting the same results. Seriously.
Reply:Move on forget about that guy, where's your dignity.
Reply:He's a player and a user. He wants you on his terms only, or in case things don't work out with the other women, he still has someone to call when he needs a booty call. He's doing this because you are allowing him to do so by putting up with it. Sorry to be so blunt, but I would walk away NOW!
Reply:This guy has no interest in you at all. It sounds as though he is only interested in your company on his terms. You do not deserve that! You deserve a guy (who by the way really likes you) that will try to spend every waking moment with you. Next time he calls, tell him you have better things to do.
Reply:Mine said that he wanted a casual relationship. I had been married for over 20 years before my divorce and had been seeing this guy 6 months and wasnt sure what he meant. I asked a friend and she said you and everyone else. He was history. Walk away with your dignity and self respect still intact.
Reply:This guy is 100% player.Move on.He will only keep looking for the next best thing.Next time he calls to set up a date,tell him you are sorry but you have a date with someone else.If has a problem with that then he has a double standard.Its OK for him to date half the city but you have to wait for him to call?I dont think so!Dont wait for him,just move on and find a guy who wants only you.

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