Thursday, November 19, 2009

My date thinks that we are related because we have some of the same step relatives/step cousins. Are we?

The girl I'm dating met her step relative and then the step relative mentioned my sister and said that she was her step granddaughter. Now my date thinks that since there is a step relation between her and my step grandma that we are related and can't date.





I want to tell my date that I like her alot and that we are not related by blood, only by law. I can't figure out how to say it to her.





I don't want to stop dating her because of a misunderstanding..this girl is awesome.

My date thinks that we are related because we have some of the same step relatives/step cousins. Are we?
Hi there,





You %26amp; your lady are not related at all, only via marriage.


Which lets face it could change at any time!!





Tell her how you feel about her, %26amp; explain that you are not related in the blood sence just through marriage.





Hope you get your girl, good luck!! xxx
Reply:that's right you are related by law.... that's okay... it's not incest!


Just bring it up slowly and tell her that you don't want to lose her by somthing silly!
Reply:If you guys have a lot of the same step parents then maybe theres somone in there that is of actual blood connection. You may even be first cousins. Find out before you fall into incest.
Reply:dude you are not related so go for it she is watching to much opra or tell her the closer the kin the deeper it goes in
Reply:if she is uncomfortable about the situation there is nothing that you can do to help her get over it.
Reply:Yeah I agree with you COMPLETELY!


girls hard kinda hard to get thing in to their brains...So Yeah you guys should not quit dating because you have some of the same step relatives!


you guys are not related at all!


Not by blood just my marriage!!!!


Just tell her that... I mean you cant make her want to date you if she doesnt because... I mean you just cant!!!!!


So maybe just talk to her about that!


Bring ya'll's parents into it maybe with another opinion she would feel better about it!!


GOOD LUCK!


*MeRRy ChrIstmaS!*
Reply:just tell her that you care about her and that you two are only related by law and that you dont have blood relation then tell her that no matter what you will always like her and that you dont want to lose her over some thing stupid like trhis


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