Ladies 25-35: first date question?

I went on a date with this girl. we had talked for hours beforehand. she knows my persona, how much I talk, what I'm into outside of work etc... I thought this was going to be an easy date since she got to disect me before the date. She was quite interested in me going into the date yet at the end of the date she wasn't too interested in giving me decent answers to my questions and I felt she wanted out. Sounds like alot of dates end with "he was boring" or "he had hygeine problems" I'm quite confident that those weren't it because she had hours before this date to know that or not. During the date she was asking me lots of questions and one of them was regarding to a past relationship of 6 yrs. I could tell she was pretty hung up on why it ended that she felt my ex-wife wasn't in full contol of me regarding to when the relationship ended because I ended it. could this be why my date isn't too into me now, as she may not have "security" being in a relationship with me?

Ladies 25-35: first date question?
Sounds like she was just getting someone to pay for her night out and when the date was coming to and end she could not be bothered with you anymore.
Reply:girls need to know that the guy they are interested doesnt have any emotional baggage from their last relationships...i normally question my guy about his exs alot just to know what he thinks..we need to have security in a realtionship
Reply:We do not know her, we can only assume, but I bet that's why. Some women wouldn't like the sense of security that you've provided (not that's it's bad). You've just got to move past her and onto one that doesn't mind it.





And I would strongly suggest telling anyone you go out with about your past relationship. Not necessarily the first date, but it needs to be brought up.





Good luck, I hope this helps.





nicole
Reply:You said something or did something tht turned her off. I dated a guy I loved to talk with. He took me to a fast food place with a coupon and forced me to order what was listed on the coupon. I never dated him again, even though I liked him.