Friday, April 16, 2010

New to dating...post first date phone call?

I have had many boyfriends but all started in highschool where dating is different. i am in university now and i had a first date with a guy on saturday the 9th. the date went well and he even extended it by asking me back for a movie. we kissed multiple times and i felt it ended on a good note. how long does it normally take for the guy to call to make the second date? i know we both had papers to write yesterday so it was no surprise to me that there was no phone call then. I am just wondering how long i should wait before i can consider it a failed attempt.





thanks!

New to dating...post first date phone call?
Isn't there like a 2-3 day rule thing for guys? That way he doesn't sound desperate. I think that you should wait the 2-3 days. If he doesn't call by friday (an extra two days just in case something came up for him), then you should be concerned.
Reply:You need to read that book He's Just Not That Into You


By Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. I read it and sorry honey, he's just not that into you. If a guy really likes you he is going to call. Paper or no Paper he's going to call. Don't waste your time move on.
Reply:read the game (a book) to see if he us playing it. know your enemy ;)
Reply:Three days to a week.
Reply:Normaly the next day.
Reply:Most guys have a 3 day rule...They don't want to seen desperate or clingy...But defiantly wait for him to call..
Reply:jennifer - im sorry but thats crazy talk. if guys like a girl they wouldnt call straight away, they would leave it a few days coz they dont want to be deperate and push her away!
Reply:that depends on how he liked you if he loves you then for sure he will call soon!

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