First Date Question?

Ok guys or girls, I want to get started back in the dating world, and well I just met this girl the other day and she gave me her number w/o even asking, so she does show interest... and well any ways, I want to ask her out on a date for this Friday or Saturday night. I was planning on calling her up tonight and just casually seeing whats up, and then throwing out there "well hey this friday or saturday im gonna be goin up to miller time to shoot some pool, i was wonderin if you would want to come aswell?" something like that.... Seeing how she is more of a rock music girl, and seeing how at the pool hall they play alot of rock music, and I'm pretty decent at pool. Would this be a good Idea, I think it is myself, but I was just wondering what other people would suggest? Keep in mind I haven't dated in a while and haven't dated that much before ne how. Oh yeah and I am 17. Thanks for the Suggestions :D

First Date Question?
Sounds like a good plan. You already have an idea of what to do (never ask a girl to make the plans, it's a turn off) and know that it has a good chance to get her interest. I would probably commit to one specific day (i.e. "I'm going Saturday" or "I'm going Friday"). Make it sound like you have a life and your busy having fun and your schedule is too busy to keep two days open.





If she wants to go for it, great. If not, her loss. In case she declines to go, still go and play pool so you can tell her how much fun you had (i.e. fun she missed) when she asks you about it next week.





Good Luck...
Reply:Definitley on the right track! I'm happy for you and good luck! Remember you can always change plans after pool...


Have fun be yourself and enjoy the evening.
Reply:yea do that good idea
Reply:Well... I think that if your 17 maybe you shouldn't be taking someone to a bar... Just my opinion, but it sounds to me like you know how to ask someone out.... but to keep an open mind about this.. I think you have the right idea... Good Luck!!
Reply:yea it sounds great, its great that you take her style in to consideration i say go for it why you have the chance.
Reply:Sounds like a good plan to me..So while your playin pool what is she going to be doing...Why dont you try takin her somewhere a lil better somewhere you could talk between just the both of you to get to know each other..Take her out to eat..just nowhere too expensive..after all u jus did meet her
Reply:sounds good. or just head to the park, even if it is winter (well it's winter here)
Reply:That sounds good. and as u said she has shown interest. i would do it soon or she will think your not interested in her.
Reply:ya u should do tht, it will totally work.
Reply:Sounds likes a good idea and if u do something stupid or mess up just laugh it off NEVER BE AFRAID TO LAUGH AT YOURSELF
Reply:If your parents are gone at the house, invite just her over, bump the music, and drink some beers, that's what I'm talkin' bout'!
Reply:well that sounds pretty reasonable, specially because you think she might feel good in that place, but I also think it is so important that you feel comfortable too, I mean if that what you really want is ok.. but it might be good to take her to a place where you feel in your enviroment, and find out if she feels good at it, I think that's the only way to find out if you two can have any future together.





however good luck !