Great Date, real chemistry, no follow-up?

So I went to the club, and met this girl. We started talking, and hitted it off really well. Exchanged #s and all that. Then I called her the next day for coffee (had dinner %26amp; drinks instead), ending the date making out in her apt. Great date, things went very well. Texted her the day after the date to tell her I had a great time, and told her we should do it again. As I didn't get a reply, I called her later than evening (no reply either) and just left a voicemail.


2 days later I receive a text from her saying that shes sorry she didn't reply sooner, but that she needs her space, and that she'll call me later. What does that mean? Usually when I hit it off this well on a first date the girl loves to chat about it the next day..

Great Date, real chemistry, no follow-up?
She might have a boyfriend that she forgot to tell you about. Or, possibly she thought you moved way too fast and you scared her off. Trust me, if she was totally into you, she'd be calling you back. Let her know to call you when she wants to hang out again, but otherwise I think she's making it clear she's not interested in anything more for now.
Reply:maybe she just needs some space? maybe one text would have been sufficient and she felt as if you were overdoing it with the follow up phone call. I would give her the space, leave her alone and hope she contacts you. DO NOT contact her again though unless she contacts you... And wait a day or so to reply to her when/if she does contact you so she doesnt think ur desperate.
Reply:Leave it alone, that is her way of saying she is just not that into to you. She may have her eyes on someone else or just be a mixed up female, either way let it go.
Reply:Maybe it's just going to fast for her.


Ask her about it and see if she will talk to you about why.
Reply:She's not that into you...
Reply:You are coming on too strong! Give her space she will contact you. Best Wishes!
Reply:Well, you could've been just a rebound, or she tied you out to make someone jealous (it happens) ...She might've been just into it because she was out and wanted to try meeting a stranger and see how it goes. Yeah, it sounds like it went well, because you did get to exchange numbers, so i'll be more positive. She could be busy during the week, so that's one thing to consider. If she asked for space, then maybe she's still reflecting on what happened, and might've been afraid to hook up and is now giving herself time to think things through and evaluate her situation (you play a factor there, don't worry, because you might've seemed okay enough for her to give you her number) Remember, not all girls are the same. So the usual thing can't be applicable to all, but hey..don't worry too much. And give her til the weekend before you contact her, but just say hi and that you're just checking up on her, making sure she still remembers you (as a joke).. Keep it light if you can. Don't get frustrated. Ball's in your court.
Reply:everybody is different and has a different opinion of what a "great time" is..no offense. Don't call her again. Anyone who says " i need my space" after just one date is a little presumptuous as to what she feels your expectations are anyway. She could've worded it better......next!
Reply:Text back, "Great! Call me if you want!" and no more. Don't ask questions, don't ask her what's wrong; be very upbeat and cool. She will wonder why you are not depressed and confused. Even though we know you are.





If she is curious she will call you. If she doesn't, then you don't sound needy. Keep looking for a girl to have fun with.
Reply:i don't think she likes you as much as you think she does.
Reply:Maybe she thinks you're coming on too strong.


Just leave it be and let her make the next move.
Reply:maybe she wasn't as interested as you thought she was... just think about it, to you the night went great but to her maybe it was a little different... It doesn't sound to me that you should put anymore energy towards her, she has already said she wants space after the very first date.. think about it...

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