Friday, April 16, 2010

First date advice....?

I posted this last night but didnt get much of a response...





Girl I met through a friend at a party over Thanksgiving break, we hit it off real well, and she IM's me, calls etc... Goes to school about 2 hours away but I want to plan a date over Christmas break, and possibly hanging out... I know I may be jumping the gun, but she'll be home.. at her parents... Being a first date, should I go up to her front door, blah blah blah and meet the parents... or is that reserved for later dates when its more serious? I just feel like when/if we get more serious I'd meet the parents, not really first date... Any thoughts ladies? and perhaps guys have any advice

First date advice....?
ASk her if she'd like to meet up someplace or you should pick her up. Might make it easier on you.
Reply:" just feel like when/if we get more serious I'd meet the parents, not really first date"
Reply:I always meet her parents on the first date. I think that by going ahead and meeting them you're (in their eyes) letting them know that she's in a good hands. I usually just meet them because I want them to know me because they've met me, and not just guess at my personality based off of stories she may have told.





Now actually hanging out with her parents and spending "quality time" with them is something that goes on later, but yes, I'd at least introduce myself as a respectable young man first.
Reply:Talk with her. Ask her what she'd be interested in doing. Would she rather meet somewhere, or is she into the old-fashioned stuff?





I take it she has a mind of her own. Everybody's different.





I just suggested that a guy consider taking a girl to a ballgame on a first date, so obviously I'm no traditionalist.





Two heads are better than one-- I'm sure y'all will come up with something.





Good Luck!


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