First date with a guy_ how to know he is interested?

I went on a date with someone last night.. It was the best night ever! He indeed treated me like queen.. ! We went to a royal dinner, dessert and later on a club. I am a bit reserved. but i think he likes my chirpy talk and that I listened to him intently of all his stories. my only dilemma is, later on in the club he started kissing me. I was not sure, if kissing was the right thing to do on a first date or not.. so wanted to stop myself.. but couldn't escape the leo charm i guess. and we got a little intimate ( he started it, though).. My worry is, does he think because i didn


t stop it, he would not respect me. coz, i think a man wants to have respect for the woman. i am not sure, also that if a man becomes intimate on the first date means he is casual about the whole thing and don't want to get serious in future or is it ok to be intimate on first date.. and still be serious may be later..He hasn't call med yet though..can someone please comment?

First date with a guy_ how to know he is interested?
don't wait around, move on. if he calls, great! if not, oh well...





by waiting and putting all your hopes in, you leave yourself open to being crushed.





i'm sure you're a great person, time to move on!
Reply:It is unfortunate this happened to you, but take it as a lesson well learned. Guy's want one thing, if they have any respect for you they will wait, he could have been trying the waters and found them too easy. They don't see it as they ar ethe only one you care for, they know if you do it that easy with one you will do it with another. take your lesson and move on. He may come back but think about what he is coming back for.
Reply:lol haha now thats from the playa guide, you were stupid enough to fall for it
Reply:You can still have a serious relationship but he will always remember you are easy and in the back of his mind think that you are giving it to all the guys.
Reply:only time will tell
Reply:everyone is different with that said this coming from a guy i would like the girl if i felt we made out because of me and she usually dont do that. if you tell him that it will give him an idea that you want to be serious. by the way the more you hold out the more we like it (for serious relationships) of course you can't hold out for too long kiss on first date is fine i think as long as that was it
Reply:try 2 be Normal
Reply:He's not going to call, you were too easy. It doesn't matter who initiated it...you let it happen.
Reply:i'd say that you should have stopped him. but i have been in this situation before and although it's harder, i think that you can still have a serious relationship.


he likely respected you, but thought you were really hot and took the opportunity to be 'intimate'.


just try not to let it happen again next time.. if he tries something, just say, i want to get to know you a little better first, ok?


and also don't just do anything he wants b/c you think he's expecting it. it's about YOU and YOUR comfort level.





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also, i don't know the guy, but it seems like he is a respectful ma if he took you to all those places.. seems like he cares. but i could be wrong.. it depends on his personality.
Reply:Just take it easy and chill-





You did what you thought was the best thing at the time so just wait and see what happens from here...





Stop with the panic.