I dont date for a number of reasons. Am i not alone on this thought?

Im a 31 year old male, and i have been single all my life. I was very shy as a child, and was picked on in school. I always dreamed of meeting the right person to make my life complete, but im afraid to put myself out there. To be a successful dater, i think you need to be confident. You need to move from date to date without letting one person's drama hurt your feelings that keep you from ever dating again. In ways you gotta forget the terrible past , and move on. I hate the thought of the process. Seeing dating shows on television keeps me withdrawn from the dating scene even more.

I dont date for a number of reasons. Am i not alone on this thought?
There are very many people who feel the same way as you do about dating. I have heard of the gold diggers, the pussy hounds, the married cheats who are f'n around, the ones who just want sex, the ones who want to get married to have children..... It's a real weird scene out there. There are also some very genuine people, who are looking just for you. You don't have to date to find a soulmate. you can meet people anywhere. If it is meant to be it will be. GOOD LUCK TO YOU...
Reply:You only go around once and I am getting as many women as I can. Report It

Reply:i will tell u something "no pain no gain"so it is bettre to love and date even there will be alittle hurt better than never date and live alone without love


so try u got nothing to loose
Reply:date now or you will end up like me 48 and never married and single again
Reply:All true, and if you're OK with it, then be my guest. Some people are made to be single.





Me, I'm 28, and I've never dated either. Sometimes a girl will throw herself at me, but that never works out well. The time will come when I can stand it no more, and will jump into a relationship, as if into an oncoming train, willing to destroy the cozy life I've made for myself, to end every sense of Comfort I have, and to give up all my secrets just to get some. I'm guessing it'll happen in about a week.





Sometimes you just have to destroy the life you know to get a better one.
Reply:give love the opportunity to strike you... suspect that there are women who could like you - give them the opportunity to meet you. gain visibility, go out...


of course you will have to life with the downturns, but on the other hand: you will be there when your true loves walkes in...
Reply:plenty of people are fine just on their own. Thumbs up for you. Sometimes it is better to be independent and love everything thats around you.
Reply:Maybe you should try a website , you can chat and get to know people without the feeling of rejection if things dont work out as planned, there are many people out the in the same boat , men and ladies , www.thailovelounge.com would be a good place to start. if you dont find a partner you could find a new friend.
Reply:For starters the dating show is nothing what real life dating is, think of it as meeting friends instead of dating then you have nothing to worry about, I find that works for me and I hate dating but I don't mind meeting new people........ I just make it clear that it's friends not a date.... you have to put your self out their in order to meet anyone and as my grandma said their is someone out their for everyone.........good luck

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