Okay, Today is my due date. My whole body has been hurting all day. For the past 5 hours I have had contractions 3-4 minutes apart. They are really strong but not in my pelvic area. Every now and then during a contraction ill get a sharp pain in my lower abdomen but all my contraction pains are in my back. It hurts really bad. right above my tailbone. and i also have alot of pressure in the front, but it just doesnt hurt up there, only in the back. If I went to the hospital do you think they would send me home since its my due date or would they induce me?
btw i know less than 5 percent give birth on the due date.. but my due date is over in a few hours.
Due date today! hurting? help!?
If your contractions are 3-4 min apart you need to get to the hospital! A lot of women only have back labor which is what is sounds like is happening with you... Call someone to take you to the Hospital immediately if you don't have anyone there or can't get anyone to take you call for an abulance... Oh and Congratulations on your new little one!
Reply:call the doctor and ask.if you wait to long you cant get any pain medicatoin.CALL THE DOCTOR!
Reply:I THINK YOU SHOULD GO TO THE HOSPITAL NOW. NO THEY WILL NOT SEND YOU BACK HOME. ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU ARE DUE TODAY. YOUR CONTRACTIONS ARE CLOSE ENOUGH, GO NOW!!! GOOD LUCK
Reply:if your contractions are regular you need to go to the hospital now!!! you should go when they are 5 min apart! go to the hospital anyway....they will send you home if it isn't time!
I was born 2 hrs 30 min past my due date...
I was in labor with first 4 hours %26amp; 2nd 3 hours....if you wait too long, they can't give you epidural!
Contgratulations, BTW...if it's a blue eyed girl, name her after me... ;o)
Reply:All of my babies gave me pain in my back. So, I think you should go to the hospital because of how close your pains are coming.
Reply:whether they send you home or not, going to the hospital will do you and your baby no harm.
Reply:SOME PEOPL;E HAVE CONTRACTIONS THAT WAY GET YOUR BUTT TO THE HOSPITAL AND GET CHECKED OUT IMMEDIATELY AND KEEP US POSTED. IF IT IS NOT CONTRACTIONS FOR THE BABY THEN YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE EVERYTHING IS OKAY......
Reply:babydoll why are you on a computer go to the hospital it might not come today it could be after 12am good luck on you delivery
Reply:You should go to the hospital because they can tell you if you are dialated and if your contractions are 3-4 minutes apart it is likely you are dialating. Water breaking as a sign of labor is very rare and unlikely to happen so don't let that hold you back. Good luck on delivery.
Reply:i'm not sure, and my answer won't help you with anything, but GOOD LUCK,,, THE BIG DAY, WOW! :D
Reply:uh...i'd call my doctor or something
Reply:i had all my labor pains in my back, i had nothing in the front. i think you should go to the hospital if they are 3-4 minutes apart. my were 7 minutes apart and i was 5cm when i got there. had a baby boy 7 hours later. oh and my waters didn't break. they had to after 5 hours as nothing was happening. good luck
Reply:If you have any feeling at all that you should go to the hospital, go for it. Better safe than sorry.
And if they send you home, they send you home. At leas you know yo and your baby are alright.
Reply:your about to have a baby and your on the computer!!! Go to the doctor woman!! GEEZ
Reply:call the labor and delievery dept in your hospital, explain what you are feeling and they will tell you what to do from there. If you go in they could send you home. start timing the length of the contraction not the time between. this will help to dtermine which stage of labor you are actually in. good luck hopefully everything will come along quickly for you today.
Reply:they probably wont induce you if you are not in labor.
sounds to me like you are in labor, why dont you call your OB and ask if you should go in. In the mean time walk walk walk, up and down stairs if ya can, and have some sex, that always seems to help move things along
Good luck
Reply:i would say your in labour, go to the hospital.
Reply:Honey, if your contractions are 3-4 minutes apart, then you need to go to the hospital NOW!
Reply:go to the hospital if you have sparp pains it could mean alot of things. you could have a breach baby or mabey the umblical cord is notted and baby cant breath. go to the hospital but what ever you do not FREAK OUT YOU NEED TO STAY COM AND BREATH
Reply:No need to induce. The contractions will get stronger. START WALKING, just back and forth.
Good luck and congratulations!
Friday, April 16, 2010
New to dating...post first date phone call?
I have had many boyfriends but all started in highschool where dating is different. i am in university now and i had a first date with a guy on saturday the 9th. the date went well and he even extended it by asking me back for a movie. we kissed multiple times and i felt it ended on a good note. how long does it normally take for the guy to call to make the second date? i know we both had papers to write yesterday so it was no surprise to me that there was no phone call then. I am just wondering how long i should wait before i can consider it a failed attempt.
thanks!
New to dating...post first date phone call?
Isn't there like a 2-3 day rule thing for guys? That way he doesn't sound desperate. I think that you should wait the 2-3 days. If he doesn't call by friday (an extra two days just in case something came up for him), then you should be concerned.
Reply:You need to read that book He's Just Not That Into You
By Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. I read it and sorry honey, he's just not that into you. If a guy really likes you he is going to call. Paper or no Paper he's going to call. Don't waste your time move on.
Reply:read the game (a book) to see if he us playing it. know your enemy ;)
Reply:Three days to a week.
Reply:Normaly the next day.
Reply:Most guys have a 3 day rule...They don't want to seen desperate or clingy...But defiantly wait for him to call..
Reply:jennifer - im sorry but thats crazy talk. if guys like a girl they wouldnt call straight away, they would leave it a few days coz they dont want to be deperate and push her away!
Reply:that depends on how he liked you if he loves you then for sure he will call soon!
dds
thanks!
New to dating...post first date phone call?
Isn't there like a 2-3 day rule thing for guys? That way he doesn't sound desperate. I think that you should wait the 2-3 days. If he doesn't call by friday (an extra two days just in case something came up for him), then you should be concerned.
Reply:You need to read that book He's Just Not That Into You
By Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. I read it and sorry honey, he's just not that into you. If a guy really likes you he is going to call. Paper or no Paper he's going to call. Don't waste your time move on.
Reply:read the game (a book) to see if he us playing it. know your enemy ;)
Reply:Three days to a week.
Reply:Normaly the next day.
Reply:Most guys have a 3 day rule...They don't want to seen desperate or clingy...But defiantly wait for him to call..
Reply:jennifer - im sorry but thats crazy talk. if guys like a girl they wouldnt call straight away, they would leave it a few days coz they dont want to be deperate and push her away!
Reply:that depends on how he liked you if he loves you then for sure he will call soon!
dds
Survey: Are You Fun on a Date?
Survey: Are You Fun on a Date?
1. What's your ideal first date?
A. Saturday night at a hip club or lounge.
B. Brunch at a local diner.
C. Dinner at an intimate restaurant.
D. Meeting for a fast lunch or coffee during the week.
E. A few casual drinks after work.
2. What do you wear on a first date?
A. Something very conservative - you don't want to give your date the wrong idea.
B. Something in which you feel confident and comfortable.
C. Whatever is clean.
D. An outfit you purchased specially for the date.
3. How would you best describe your date personality?
A. Flirty
B. Compassionate
C. Contentious
D. Light-hearted
E. Basically the same as my ordinary personality
4. Do you find yourself telling, or laughing at, jokes on a date?
A. Telling the jokes - always.
B. Laughing politely at my dates' jokes.
C. There is not a lot of laughter on most of my dates.
Survey: Are You Fun on a Date?
C
B
E, I don't change for a date but I am usually flirty and compassionate anytime!
A and B! %26lt;3 I love to have fun and joke around sometimes
Reply:1. B.
2. B.
3. E.
4. A. Im always telling jokes corny or not I just love to laugh.
Reply:1. Breakfast at Shari's
2. Same thing I wear on any given day. Jeans and a T-shirt/sweatshirt. When you find a girl that thinks the same way you are on the right path ;)
3. Just me
4. Both. That is the only way to go through life
Reply:1. C. Dinner at an intimate restaurant
2. D. An outfit I purchased especially for the date
3. A. Flirty
4. A. Telling the jokes- always.
Reply:1. C
2. B
3. B
4. B :)
Reply:E
C
E
A
But you said first date in your first 2 questions, so my answers would be different if we dated longer.
Reply:1. C.
2. B.
3. B.
4. A. and B.
Reply:C
B
B
A
Reply:1. B
2. A
3. D
4. B
I'm thinking I wouldn't be too much fun, actually.
Reply:1. E
2. B
3. A
4. B
Reply:1. b
2. b
3. b.
4. b
Reply:A
B
E
A%26amp;B
1. What's your ideal first date?
A. Saturday night at a hip club or lounge.
B. Brunch at a local diner.
C. Dinner at an intimate restaurant.
D. Meeting for a fast lunch or coffee during the week.
E. A few casual drinks after work.
2. What do you wear on a first date?
A. Something very conservative - you don't want to give your date the wrong idea.
B. Something in which you feel confident and comfortable.
C. Whatever is clean.
D. An outfit you purchased specially for the date.
3. How would you best describe your date personality?
A. Flirty
B. Compassionate
C. Contentious
D. Light-hearted
E. Basically the same as my ordinary personality
4. Do you find yourself telling, or laughing at, jokes on a date?
A. Telling the jokes - always.
B. Laughing politely at my dates' jokes.
C. There is not a lot of laughter on most of my dates.
Survey: Are You Fun on a Date?
C
B
E, I don't change for a date but I am usually flirty and compassionate anytime!
A and B! %26lt;3 I love to have fun and joke around sometimes
Reply:1. B.
2. B.
3. E.
4. A. Im always telling jokes corny or not I just love to laugh.
Reply:1. Breakfast at Shari's
2. Same thing I wear on any given day. Jeans and a T-shirt/sweatshirt. When you find a girl that thinks the same way you are on the right path ;)
3. Just me
4. Both. That is the only way to go through life
Reply:1. C. Dinner at an intimate restaurant
2. D. An outfit I purchased especially for the date
3. A. Flirty
4. A. Telling the jokes- always.
Reply:1. C
2. B
3. B
4. B :)
Reply:E
C
E
A
But you said first date in your first 2 questions, so my answers would be different if we dated longer.
Reply:1. C.
2. B.
3. B.
4. A. and B.
Reply:C
B
B
A
Reply:1. B
2. A
3. D
4. B
I'm thinking I wouldn't be too much fun, actually.
Reply:1. E
2. B
3. A
4. B
Reply:1. b
2. b
3. b.
4. b
Reply:A
B
E
A%26amp;B
My Due Date?
Ok here is my story. The first day of my last period was June 16th 2007. Well I found out i was pregnant on July 20th. So when I found out I went online and did one of those due date calculator things. It gave me a due date of March 22, 2008. So then once I go to the doctors and get my first ultrasound, the doctors give me a due date of April 1st. When I went to get my anatomy scan at 18 weeks, the ultrasound tech gave me a due date of March 27th. I could understand the difference between the April 1st and March 27th since thats only like 5 days. but why would 40 weeks from my last pregnancy,march 22nd, and my due date from the doctors, april 1st, be off my like two weeks? just curious.
My Due Date?
If you used your last period to estimate your due date on a calculator then it is easy for that estimate to be off. When using your last period, those calculators assume that you ovulated 14 days after the first day of your LMP (last menstrual period). Some women do ovulate on the 14th day, but it can vary widely from only a few days to months if the period is really irregular. The only way to be sure of a due date is to know what day you ovulated by tracking your basal body tempurature (BBT). Look it up at babycenter or pregnancy.org or something. The ultrasound can give you a better estimate of exact fetal age, but it's better to have done very early as that is when the fetus changes most. At 18 weeks a fetus just looks like a small baby and the tech is estimating based on size.
Reply:some doctors take it at the beginning from ur last period
and well once u have a scan the baby's size confirms the real due date for example
i had my last period in 12th November07 and i thought i would be due around 19th August07 i was close but my son actually due date was 20th August because of when i conceived
i would go with the ultra tech due date and keep that one in mind
Reply:Your calculations are probably a little off. A lot of times docs will go by ultra sounds to determine a due date, not just date of last period. Congrats!
Reply:The first ultrasound is probably more reliable than counting from the last period. If your ovulation was a bit later than normal, that could already have caused such a difference.
- But anyway, only 10% of all babies ever come on the due-date.
Congrats and good luck!
Reply:It is very common to be off by 2 weeks. Due dates (as I'm sure you already understand) are just estimates. That's why you're not considered "overdue" until 42 weeks and not premature at 38 weeks.
Reply:when doctors measure you and do ultrasounds, they aren't completely accurate. it gives them an idea of where you are in your pregnancy. Sometimes, they assume you got pregnant earlier than you thought.
if you have a regular period, i would use your last menstrual period date and count forward from that. Also, ask the doctor "what is my due date??"
Throughout my pregnancy, I have measured bigger compared to my last menstrual period due date, but the most accurate is from the last menstruation. Especially, if you have a normal period. If you don't, then that's another story.
Reply:You could have implanted late. When the sprem meets the egg it travels down and then implants into the uterine wall. This time can be short or longer. I would go by the first ultrasound that you had and assume your due date is 4/1. Mine babies were all born closer to the due date I got from early ultrasounds than any other duedates.
Reply:MY doctors gave me a due date of November 17th, I came up with the 7th on my own with a calculator.. My daughter was born on the 7th... But the baby comes when they want. I bet any time in that two weeks!
Reply:The doctor and the ultrasound tech are estimating the delivery date by the measure of the baby. I wouldn't get too wrapped up in the date. Most women do not deliver on their date anyway. The average baby is delivered at 41 weeks according to a recent Harvard study-- not 40 weeks, as previously believed. Going by the traditional 40 weeks from last period method, March 22nd would be your correct EDD. However, if your doctor is saying April 1st-- go with that one. That means you will be given more time to have the baby without pressure of going to the hospital to be induced--- which trust me, you do not want.
Reply:you may have ovulated later than you figured. really though, a due date is just a prediction- and the baby will come when it is good and ready! you are almost done! enjoy your last few weeks!!!
Reply:its gonna come out when its ready anyway...so it dont matter. It might come out tomorrow...it might come out still born...
Reply:The size of the fetus could be throwing everything off. If he/she is too big doctors assume you are farther along and if to small you will be later due date. However be prepared to not give birth on the due date... my son was due on the 28th and gave birth on the 12th. Congrats for the new baby!
Reply:they are calculating that by messuring the baby..the first one is always the most acurate..becuase babies grow at different speeds..or everyones kid would weigh the same at birth...i had 3 different dates too but they told me to go by the 1st one..my last ultrasound was 2 weeks off basically she explained to me my baby is the size of one due 2 weeks before my due date..but the average baby is anywhere from 6-8 lbs..mine were above that always..its just an estimated messurement..go by the first one!
Reply:maybe you ovulated later , i think I'm 8 weeks but ultrasound shoes 7 weeks
Reply:the u/s one is most accurate. go with that one. not surprising that the other two were within a week on either side of it... they were more guesstimates rahter than based on how developed the baby is.
My Due Date?
If you used your last period to estimate your due date on a calculator then it is easy for that estimate to be off. When using your last period, those calculators assume that you ovulated 14 days after the first day of your LMP (last menstrual period). Some women do ovulate on the 14th day, but it can vary widely from only a few days to months if the period is really irregular. The only way to be sure of a due date is to know what day you ovulated by tracking your basal body tempurature (BBT). Look it up at babycenter or pregnancy.org or something. The ultrasound can give you a better estimate of exact fetal age, but it's better to have done very early as that is when the fetus changes most. At 18 weeks a fetus just looks like a small baby and the tech is estimating based on size.
Reply:some doctors take it at the beginning from ur last period
and well once u have a scan the baby's size confirms the real due date for example
i had my last period in 12th November07 and i thought i would be due around 19th August07 i was close but my son actually due date was 20th August because of when i conceived
i would go with the ultra tech due date and keep that one in mind
Reply:Your calculations are probably a little off. A lot of times docs will go by ultra sounds to determine a due date, not just date of last period. Congrats!
Reply:The first ultrasound is probably more reliable than counting from the last period. If your ovulation was a bit later than normal, that could already have caused such a difference.
- But anyway, only 10% of all babies ever come on the due-date.
Congrats and good luck!
Reply:It is very common to be off by 2 weeks. Due dates (as I'm sure you already understand) are just estimates. That's why you're not considered "overdue" until 42 weeks and not premature at 38 weeks.
Reply:when doctors measure you and do ultrasounds, they aren't completely accurate. it gives them an idea of where you are in your pregnancy. Sometimes, they assume you got pregnant earlier than you thought.
if you have a regular period, i would use your last menstrual period date and count forward from that. Also, ask the doctor "what is my due date??"
Throughout my pregnancy, I have measured bigger compared to my last menstrual period due date, but the most accurate is from the last menstruation. Especially, if you have a normal period. If you don't, then that's another story.
Reply:You could have implanted late. When the sprem meets the egg it travels down and then implants into the uterine wall. This time can be short or longer. I would go by the first ultrasound that you had and assume your due date is 4/1. Mine babies were all born closer to the due date I got from early ultrasounds than any other duedates.
Reply:MY doctors gave me a due date of November 17th, I came up with the 7th on my own with a calculator.. My daughter was born on the 7th... But the baby comes when they want. I bet any time in that two weeks!
Reply:The doctor and the ultrasound tech are estimating the delivery date by the measure of the baby. I wouldn't get too wrapped up in the date. Most women do not deliver on their date anyway. The average baby is delivered at 41 weeks according to a recent Harvard study-- not 40 weeks, as previously believed. Going by the traditional 40 weeks from last period method, March 22nd would be your correct EDD. However, if your doctor is saying April 1st-- go with that one. That means you will be given more time to have the baby without pressure of going to the hospital to be induced--- which trust me, you do not want.
Reply:you may have ovulated later than you figured. really though, a due date is just a prediction- and the baby will come when it is good and ready! you are almost done! enjoy your last few weeks!!!
Reply:its gonna come out when its ready anyway...so it dont matter. It might come out tomorrow...it might come out still born...
Reply:The size of the fetus could be throwing everything off. If he/she is too big doctors assume you are farther along and if to small you will be later due date. However be prepared to not give birth on the due date... my son was due on the 28th and gave birth on the 12th. Congrats for the new baby!
Reply:they are calculating that by messuring the baby..the first one is always the most acurate..becuase babies grow at different speeds..or everyones kid would weigh the same at birth...i had 3 different dates too but they told me to go by the 1st one..my last ultrasound was 2 weeks off basically she explained to me my baby is the size of one due 2 weeks before my due date..but the average baby is anywhere from 6-8 lbs..mine were above that always..its just an estimated messurement..go by the first one!
Reply:maybe you ovulated later , i think I'm 8 weeks but ultrasound shoes 7 weeks
Reply:the u/s one is most accurate. go with that one. not surprising that the other two were within a week on either side of it... they were more guesstimates rahter than based on how developed the baby is.
Date&Time issue!!?
Date%26amp; Time Issue?
Hi, In my one of the table where i have DateTime column formatted like (2007-07-21 00:00:08.893).
The problem is when i try to retreve data by ''
SELECT * from table where Rdate = getdate()-1''. It will give me results even we have rows for all the days i want. Should i have to Convert date to get date or anything else !!.
Anyidea !!
Actually i am trying to create a Store Proc which will run every Week and delete the records from the table older then 10 days.For this i choosse the date Time column..But when i simply use the Select or Delete
command it returns with 0 row.
Please let me know !!
Thanks..
Date%26amp;Time issue!!?
You did not say which flavor of SQL you are using so this idea may not work for you.
Assuming you are using SQL Server, you may have to strip the time component from your date-time values before doing your comparisons because
"getdate() -1" subtracts one day from the current date %26amp; time but does not change the time-of-day portion so you only find matches where the time-stamp portion matches exactly.
You probably want to remove the time portion of the date-times before comparing. Look into using the CONVERT function.
SELECT * from table where Rdate %26lt; cast (convert(varchar,GETDATE() -10,101)) as datetime;
NOTE: The "101" is a format code that you may have to change based on the format that getdate() provides.
Hi, In my one of the table where i have DateTime column formatted like (2007-07-21 00:00:08.893).
The problem is when i try to retreve data by ''
SELECT * from table where Rdate = getdate()-1''. It will give me results even we have rows for all the days i want. Should i have to Convert date to get date or anything else !!.
Anyidea !!
Actually i am trying to create a Store Proc which will run every Week and delete the records from the table older then 10 days.For this i choosse the date Time column..But when i simply use the Select or Delete
command it returns with 0 row.
Please let me know !!
Thanks..
Date%26amp;Time issue!!?
You did not say which flavor of SQL you are using so this idea may not work for you.
Assuming you are using SQL Server, you may have to strip the time component from your date-time values before doing your comparisons because
"getdate() -1" subtracts one day from the current date %26amp; time but does not change the time-of-day portion so you only find matches where the time-stamp portion matches exactly.
You probably want to remove the time portion of the date-times before comparing. Look into using the CONVERT function.
SELECT * from table where Rdate %26lt; cast (convert(varchar,GETDATE() -10,101)) as datetime;
NOTE: The "101" is a format code that you may have to change based on the format that getdate() provides.
The double date?
So recently i went on this double date, it was with my friend and his girlfriend and his girlfriends friend. We all planned to watch a movie and hang out later and stuff, so anyway the date overall wasn't that great, constant bickering between my friend and his girl, my date barely spoke to me, she rather wanted to talk with the others, i felt left out and it was excruciatingly akward, i tried to make small talk but by then my confidence self-esteem shot out, it was destined to be a bomb not to mention the movie as well. And then then the final blow came when we were supposed to hang at my friends place and she takes off, leaving me sidelined at my friends place whilst they're making out in the other room. Shitty. So yeah, i think i'm going to set these "double dates" aside for awhile. Have any of you had a bad expierence being in a double date? I say screw it, i'm just going to buy my girlfriends from now on. juuust kidding.
The double date?
getting out of the log when on date is of no new problem...
Reply:The worst blind date I ever had was on New Year's Eve a couple of years ago. A friend of mine set me up with her boyfriend's friend and we went to a concert which was fun but then we went to a party at some girls house that he liked. He got so drunk that he threw up all over the backyard and ended up making out with the other girl. We were in his car so I had to sit there and do nothing while this guy made an idiot of himself. The worst part was he actually called me the next day and asked if he could see me again. I've never laughed so hard in my life. No more blind dates for me.
dental bridge
The double date?
getting out of the log when on date is of no new problem...
Reply:The worst blind date I ever had was on New Year's Eve a couple of years ago. A friend of mine set me up with her boyfriend's friend and we went to a concert which was fun but then we went to a party at some girls house that he liked. He got so drunk that he threw up all over the backyard and ended up making out with the other girl. We were in his car so I had to sit there and do nothing while this guy made an idiot of himself. The worst part was he actually called me the next day and asked if he could see me again. I've never laughed so hard in my life. No more blind dates for me.
dental bridge
Recamentations for a date?
I finaly asked this girl out and she said yes. I know a good bit about her and I know that she has been on a bate b4. Im knew to this stuff so i dont know much. So i askd her to the movies and she said yes... this is my first date and its already become a double date with my best friend and my gf best friend. Works out wen ur best friend and ur gfs best friend are dating. Should i have made my first date a double date or ask her wut she wants. Im pretty sure she WANTS the double date... so yea...
Recamentations for a date?
very sad
Reply:ask her beacuse pretty sure aint certain:P
Reply:yea double dat it is ? and don't forget a threesome in the end ........ hahaha
Recamentations for a date?
very sad
Reply:ask her beacuse pretty sure aint certain:P
Reply:yea double dat it is ? and don't forget a threesome in the end ........ hahaha
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