Would you date a guy whos father didnt approve of you over religious reason but his mother and sisters did ???

would you date a GUY, whos father didnt approve of you over religious reasons and didnt let you come to his house??? and you wanted to ? Would you ever date a guy whos house you had been to when the guys father wasnt in and you got on really well with the guys mother and sister. But you wasnt allowed to stay there or go to his house when he is father was there because he didnt approve of you ??? Basically you couldnt visit the guys house becuase of his father ???? i love this girl and im in this situation i lied to her my parents would approve of me dating a white girl but my dad aint. would you date guy in this situation ? am 19 and i cant afford to move out and am a student and i also respect my dads wishes. so wud you date the guy ??

Would you date a guy whos father didnt approve of you over religious reason but his mother and sisters did ???
If i really love the guy then F*** his father


I would try to make him accept me
Reply:without reading all the info you gave, i say YES! I hate prejudiced people. You do what you want, the father is totally in the wrong.
Reply:It really doesn't matter what anybody else would do in this situation. You are the one that needs to decide what is right for you and your guy.





The impact of getting along with family of loved ones is much greater than many people realize. You are very insightful to consider such an important issue.





Don't come between a (even tho adult) child and a parent if there is anyway to avoid it.





The father has not given you a fair chance and it does not speak very well of his religion, but, be that as it may, it is decent and civilized of you to show respect to him - respect that he has not given to you, I might add, but, you seem to be the more mature person in this case.





At the moment, the religion may not be so important to your guy, but, it has far reaching and subtle influences on those indoctrinated. It can cause hugh conflict without a person, so be very cautious going against that.





Try to hang in there respecting the father's wishes - give it more time. Maybe the father will come around and if he doesn't, as the two of you become more independent, you can decide what is best for everybody.





You are to be commended for taking this issue into consideration. Good luck
Reply:my bf dates me even if my dad is a mean as*s to him! my mom and my brothers approve of him. he's english...im indian...


look, as long as she is the love of your life...and you want to be with her, it's worth the struggle. it's not always going to be like this. everything will get better and move on to better things. so good luck to you and me! =)
Reply:If i liked him I`d date him, his dad doesn`t come into it, unless he wnts to join you on the dates????????


No, go for it..it`s your life and you regret more the things you don`t do than the things you do.
Reply:I supose love is love but eventally its gonna become hard and alot of pressure so i don't know how long it would last
Reply:if u really like him then yeah.....but if u just kinda like him then no cuz u can find something better......
Reply:I would date the guy. But I would be offended at his dads narrow-mindedness. Also, I would wonder if perhaps the guy felt the same way, or if the tension would make him want to brake it off.


You're 19 now, but you can't let other people, even if they are your dad, run your life and actually disrupt it. Your dad is going to have to budge eventually, or else he will miss out on you and your life. If you married the girl or had children, would he want to see his own grandchildren?


He needs to adjust a little. He can have beliefs without forcing them on his loved ones.


Good luck
Reply:Nope. You're asking for nothing but trouble in the future.


Find someone who's family is more accepting.
Reply:no, i wouldn´t. been there and done that. Its important to feel welcome in your partner´s home and its important to get along with his family, especially if he loves and respects his family. So i´d move on to some place where i´m welcome.
Reply:if you love her then you need to tell your dad that its you thats dating her not him. Just because your dad dont like white girls in that way it dont mean you dont. Your father should respect your decision, its whats on the inside that matters not the outside. Ask your dad to take the time to get to know her. I dont know your fathers full views but it sounds like he's being racist to me, which i'm sure you know alot about being coloured. Do what makes you happy not what makes your father happy or you'll be unhappy forever. I left my longterm partner so i could be with someone else which my family weren't happy about at the time, we tried many times to finish with each other because of my family but now they've no problem with us %26amp; we are happy. Do what makes you happy. Goodluck
Reply:don't date white girls...they been brought up to be materialist superficial liars and racist towards the colored people all their lives....forget about her and let her get what her father wants an abusive white man for his daughter because that is considered normal for white people to do. They treat each other like crap, they treat their own family even the opposite sex like crap, they treat others like crap. I suggest you don't bother. Your dad probably understands that its considered unusal for a white girl to find any form of love from a colored person normal. They tend to prefer abusive relationships as normality.
Reply:if I like the guy of course, but only if he tell me the true
Reply:yes i would date him if i really loved him!! and if i didn't then i wouldn't date him!!!

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