Gay son wants to date at 15?

my son just turned 15... he thought he was bi... and we discussed it.... now he says he is gay.... regardless.... he wants to date this guy from school.... we have had several conversations concerning him being bi or gay and i have told him that no matter what.... i will always love him and i accept him for who he is... but... at this tender age.. i can't allow him to "date" a guy.... now i find out that he asked a guy to "date" him after i told him not to do this...and they are "dating" .... i have learned this is not the first guy he has asked to "date"... if one guy says no... he immediatly asks another..... he says he doesn't like being single... he likes dating..............so...... need advice...... should he be allowed to date when i really believe he may be confused at this time in his life... and may look back on it and think.... what was i thinking..... i am trying to look out for him now and in the future.....anyone know of any sites that may help me....... thank you....

Gay son wants to date at 15?
thank you so much for not judging!


okay, i have a bi friend thats also 15.


i would let him date, because if you dont, he will become frustrated, and if he has a boyfriend, and some ppl pick on them, its easier to fight with 2 ppl instead of one, and, if he does like the guy, just say yeah!


i would totally let him date, if its what he wants to do. =]


hope this helps!
Reply:You're not gonna be able to stop him, just tell him what he is exposing himself to, such as the consequences of STDs. Otherwise I just say let him do what he wants...he's probably already getting it up the butt and you're not gonna be able to stop that.
Reply:first of all you shudnt let ure son be gay...but i understand u respecting his watever u call it, and u shudnt....wait...idk...i just dont think u shud let him be gay....he's 15...come on now...think...15....i can see 18....but 15...be real...u need to lock ure self in closet and think...and if u think this is offensive....ure wrong...again...cuz its not...just sayin...ya kno
Reply:You should let him date. His love isn't any different than anyone elses. If he cares for these boys, let him care.





I know you want to be the concerned, protective parent. But sheltered kids snap. And your love for him could backfire, if you keep him away from his boyfriends. =/
Reply:uhm wow it must be hard but that is good you are supporting him uhm if i had a kid at 15 that said he was gay i probaly would not let him date and if you do i would say ok but wouldnt want them to be around me its ok to let them go to movies and stuff
Reply:Other kids do date that young, would you have an issue with it if he was straight?


More often than not these relationships won't last very long, so I don' think there is too much to worry about.
Reply:Most kids date at that age, no matter if they're gay or what. Maybe when he dates it can be a definite for him if he is gay or bi or whatever.
Reply:gay or not, he doesn't sound mature enough to date.


make him wait another year.
Reply:Is he allowed to date girls?

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