Should we date?

my good friend dated a guy we both liked. i never told her i liked him,before or after they dated, because she liked him so much. they broke up a couple of months ago, and she still has feelings for him. sometimes it seems like he might have them for me, but i'm not sure. if he were to ever ask me out, would it be wrong to date him? i really really like him, but i dont want to hurt my friend. she is a REALLY close friend, one of my best, and even though they arent dating, i feel like it would still hurt her. sometimes it seems like she still likes him, othertimes not. if he asked me, i would want to, but i wouldnt risk my friendship for it. would it be wrong?? if anybody has ever dated a friend's ex, maybe they could help. :/

Should we date?
a good friend does not go for the best friends man..i dont care how much you like him..but it sounds to me that he was with ehr and now wants to date you..whose next when hes finished with you?? a friend will always be beside you..a guy like this will be beside you like he was your friend and then youll be where your friend is standing..so think about it ok?? hugsss sweetie
Reply:first no one actually follows the no dating friends exs. ask her if she likes him before telling her u like him and see what she say and if she says its ok than date him but if she still likes him then dont because most likely she will get mad and stop talking to u.(my ex bestfriends told me it was ok to date her ex then she told me that it was a test and now we dont talk because she thinks i stole her bf) but any way watch out for the friend test but if ur really friends she wouldnt give u a test but talk to her see what she say
Reply:how long did your friend and this guy date? if it was more than like a month or two and she still has feelings for him, he is off limits. sorry. my boyfriend dated two of my friends, but it was only for about a week and they both broke up with him. i think she would feel betrayed by you because you knew that she still had feelings for him. i wouldnt risk my friendship
Reply:talk to your friend. be honest with her. if shes not okay with it (even for the slightest bit) back off.





if u think this guy is worth losing a friendship, then proceed. if not im REALLY sorry but i think u should find someone else. i know its really difficult moving on (ive been there... and im still there :[ )
Reply:I would clear with my friend first.