Monday, April 12, 2010

Should we date again? Or Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater?

We dated for 2 and 1/2 years, without ever breaking up. She was a sophomore, and I was a junior in high school. We went to the same church and same school. After our first semester of college, I caught her on her myspace talking to my friend. On myspace, they were flirting majorly. I confronted her about it, and I told her I knew that she was talking with my friend behind my back. She confessed that she liked him and that they were on the phone talking to each other, from 10-12 at midnight. She was crying and told me literally 30 times she was sorry and that I am the one she wanted. I forgave her, because I could tell she really was sorry for cheating on me, and we continued to date. Four months later, I surprised her (and myself) and decided out of nowhere that we shouldnt date anymore. I just fell out of love with her, so I dumped her. We are best friends now. She has dated 3 guys since then, but is single now. Should we date again? We really loved each other, but..IDK

Should we date again? Or Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater?
if you feel that you truly love her then go ahead and date her again. In a situation like this you need to follow your heart not your mind.. Think about it like this, can you seee yourself marrying her in the future or someone else?
Reply:If you think it could work then go ahead and ask her out again. In high school everyone is immature and serious relationships then never work out. But now that you are older it may work out. She didnt really cheat on you back then by chatting with other men and flirting. Just make it clear to her that you only want to date her and want a serious relationship.


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