I would like answers from both guys and girls.
1) How do you know if it's a date or if you're just hanging out?
2) Should the girl call/text/IM back? If so when should he/she call/text/IM back? When should he?
3) Can you kiss on the first date? Can you hook up on the first date?
4) Who pays?
5) What is the ideal first date? (Other than dinner and a movie.)
5) What should the guy/girl wear?
6) What are your turn-ons on a first date?
7) Turn-offs?
8) What if you have more experience than your date? What do you do in that situation?
9) What if you're not interested in your date? Do you call them back?
10) How can you tell if your date is interested in you?
11) Anything else you'd like to add?
First date rules?
1. Well, I'd definetly say it's a date if you kiss. I was hanging with a guy but thought it was a date and said so later on and he told me it wasn't. I felt so dumb.
2. Hmmm. That's hard. I normally text back after the 3 day rule expires. He should call within 3 days. If he calls the first day, it means he's desperate/anxious. Second day, feelings are mutual. Third day, I like you as a friend. Not. So I find out the 4th day usually cause I want to know. I mean, who wouldn't?
3. Kiss? Definetly. But don't rush into a collateral make-out session. Hook-up? Definetly not. Then he'll know you're easy and a total skank.
4. Well, if you ask him out, it's 50-50 unless he insists. Whenhe asks you, it's his. But bring cash incase he ends up to be an ***.
5. The guy? Uhh, something casual. Like jeans and a polo or khakis. The girl? A cute skirt and top or hot jeans with a flirty but not skanky top.
6. If he opens the car door for you and doors like to the movies or a restaurant. When he compliments you on how you look.
7. When he sings(if he has a bad voice) or burps in public. Or thinking that he's gonna get some.
8. Hmm. Well in the way you stated the question, it seems that you already know that you have more experience. So, I would just leave him with a few lingering kisses. Then well you can either just do an open mouth or french right before you get out of the car or go inside your home. But give him atleast a 1.5 minute kiss. i've found that it's simply irresistible.
9. Well, if you're a leper or desperate. But I'd say uh, no.
10. He calls you back for starters. During the date though, like if you hold hands. Hold a great conversation. Catch him looking at you and then he glances away.
11. Basically, relax. I know that is like sooo cliche. Since I always get butterflies before every first date but just be yourself. It works!
Reply:hooking up doesn't mean your a skank, if anything it's the other way around! Report It
Reply:Is this your first date EVER? Geez, how old are you?
Reply:You know you are on a date when you get asked out on one.
If you're just hanging around with each other knowing that's all you are doing that is not a date.
Don't conduct an interview.
Just try to have fun.
You only call if the date went OK. Depending on how well it went is how soon you call. The guy should be the first to call.
Movies suck for a first date.
Reply:1) How do you know if it's a date or if you're just hanging out?
if they asked you on a date,itsadate
2) Should the girl call/text/IM back? If so when should he/she call/text/IM back? When should he?
if you like him, text bak
3) Can you kiss on the first date? Can you hook up on the first date? sure
4) Who pays? whoever invited
5) What is the ideal first date? (Other than dinner and a movie.)
thats ahardone
5) What should the guy/girl wear?
anything pretty
6) What are your turn-ons on a first date?
manners
7) Turn-offs?
someone with no manners
8) What if you have more experience than your date? What do you do in that situation?
act normal...
9) What if you're not interested in your date? Do you call them back?
no
10) How can you tell if your date is interested in you?
you'll just know byhow they act
11) Anything else you'd like to add?
not really
Reply:1) If someone whom I had never "hung out" before one on one asks me out, it's a date.
2) I don't think the girl should make first contact after the date; the guy should. I would expect him to make some kind of contact within a day or two if, he is interested.
3) Yes and yes, it all depends on the circumstances. I personally prefer to keep the first date "neutral", but things happen.
4) The guy pays. I'm probably old-fashioned, but I feel that it is one of the responsibilities of a guy on a date.
5) To me, it's always been a quiet restaurant/coffee shop of some sort. Don't like movie dates, because you can't really talk/get to know the person.
6) What to wear? Hopefully something fairly casual. The first date need not be fancy.
7) Turn-on - intelligent conversation. The guy should be engaging and entertaining. Turn-offs - not being able to carry on a conversation; moving too fast too soon.
8) It would probably be difficult to tell on the first date who has more "experience". Even people with "experience" can get shy or awkward. I wouldn't do anything differently.
9) No, I would not call them back. If they called me back, I woulod probably give it another chance, unless the first date was a complete disaster.
10) The best way to tell that he's interested is that he calls you back soon.
11) Good luck!
Reply:It depends on the people ... for all of it ... generally the guy pays. if she touches you alot... not sexually you perverts... then thats a good sign .... the best advice i can give is ask anything you want to know directly to the person you are dating.... ask confidently because it makes great conversation and also you will get your answers.
Reply:1. You should know if it's a date or not because you guys set it up, unless you're specifically just "hangingout"
2. Yes, she should at the end of the night just to say thanks, that's called SOCIAL ETIQUETTE
3. You can kiss if you're feeling the guy. A gentle French kiss or cheek peck is fine. Hook up? Wow you're fast...general NO-NO
4. Should be the guy...
5. Ice-Skating, comedy clubs, jazz nights, theatre etc
6. Wear Something smart but casual. Sexy but classy. Be yourself.
7. Turn ons? A man who smells good, grooms well, manners and affectionate.
8. Turn offs? Poor hygiene, inconsiderate, cheap skate.
9. Experience in what?
10. If not interested in date, do a polite thanks but no thanks call.
11. If date is interested in you, he'd lean in, lots of physical affection (holding your hand, hand on your back, on your arm etc)
looks into your eyes when you speak, listens to what you have to say and body is always turned into you.
12. Extras? Don't ever give it up on a first day. That's too fast and guys while they enjoy it, they also have a double standard of not wanting a woman that's easy to have.
Don't try to hard to please him, be yourself and have a good time.
Reply:OK, first, take a breath. You're putting a lot of pressure on a first date. Let's take this systematically.
1) If you're bowling, you're hanging out. If you're at a nice restaurant, you're on a date.
2) If you had a good date, he should call you back.
3) Follow your instinct, but know that most hook-ups on a first date go nowhere.
4) He pays for a first date. No exceptions.
5) No rules. Everyone's an individual; if you click over pizza and video games, you click.
6) Chivalry. If he's totally into your conversation, pulls out your chair, opens doors, takes your hand across icy sidewalks...that's nice.
7) Going dutch, talking about sex (totally crass), discussing previous relationships (baggage), answering his phone while you're on the date...it means he's not into what's in front of him.
8) Don't bring it up. Shouldn't be first-date conversation anyway. Not respectful.
9) No. Don't lead him on. Be honest if he calls you.
10) He'll treat you like you're the most important person in the whole world.
11) Dating is like a job interview. Your date should be totally into you, what he can do for you, how he can make your life better, why he's the best man for the job. If he's not into it, he's not for you.
Happy hunting--
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